Five Lessons I Learned from Fifty Years of Marriage


Love is in the air. On Valentine’s Day, we take time to celebrate the love in our lives. Yet love, and especially marriage, is so much more than chocolate hearts and roses. Today, special guest Donna Daly reminds us of some important life lessons that she has acquired during 50 years of marriage to her husband, Ken. Happy Valentine’s Day.

A lovely friend recently referred to Ken and me as a “regular couple”.  While we appreciated the positive title, we chuckled that we view ourselves as an “irregular couple”.  We agree that we are still a long-term couple because we are somewhat a product of our generation, our families, and mostly because of God’s strong hand in our loving relationship.

Here are 5 lessons learned in our fifty years of marriage:

1. Love isn’t always stars, butterflies and bells. 

While that magical spark is surely a gift from God to be cherished and enjoyed, true long-term love is much more.  Not only is it honoring the marriage but also the personhood, the individuality of the other, as well as the self.

2.  “Most people are doing the best they can most of the time.”

In Ken’s and my younger days, the movie, “Love Story”, was popular.  One of the famous lines is, “Love means you never have to say, I’m sorry.”  Well, sorry movie lovers but Ken and I believe that saying “I’m sorry” and forgiving is important.  We believe that each of us is a fallen person, redeemed by Christ’s love.  Anyone can have an “off-day” or “off-time” in their lives when they aren’t their true selves.  When that‘s happened to either of us, we have reminded ourselves to, “Hang in there, Charlie Brown.”  Sharing  feelings and perceptions while accepting another’s viewpoint is important and can be challenging.  As Abraham Lincoln said, “Most people are doing the best they can most of the time.”  I’ve learned the importance of good communication skills.  And I’m still learning!

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3.  Learn to dance.

As a dear, perceptive friend observed, Ken and I have learned “our dance” very well.  We still giggle about the time early on in our marriage when, together, we made our bed.  Ken observed my side of the bed with its wrinkles and bumps while I saw the imperfections on his side.  While not mentioning it to one another, we simultaneously passed each other at the foot of the bed to fix the other person’s mistakes.  Now, I let him make the bed while I’m the designated sheet changer. 😊 Obviously, this is a metaphor for focusing on “the splinter in your neighbor’s eye while overlooking the plank in your own.”  Humor is so important, too!

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4. It takes two wholes to make a marriage.

We knew our marriage was a sacred vow when we received premarital counseling from our pastor and are even more convinced fifty years later.  Because Ken and I wanted our marriage to last, we had to let it be a fluid, evolving relationship.  While remaining faithful to one another, we learned that we each needed to have the freedom to be who God called us to be.  As my wise Aunt Billie shared, “God is first in our lives and then comes our spouse and family.”  A marriage relationship is much richer and more fun when two whole people form a union.  It’s a great thing to support your loved one in happiness and success.


5. Grow together with God.      

Couples devotions, even if only for ten or fifteen minutes a day, as well as regular church attendance are very important to our marriage.  We need and cherish the opportunity to be grounded in God’s love, grace, and community.

It seems I overflow with clichés.  Anyway, here goes another…  “Come grow old(er!) with me, the best is yet to be.”  Ken and I are amazed by how fast the years have flown.  We feel that while our marriage hasn’t been perfect, here we are.  As we like to say to one another, “You’re still the one!”  We feel so blessed and look forward to making even more joyful memories.

Lord of love, lead us in the dance of marriage. May we be grateful for the gift of such love and recognize the masterpiece you have created in our spouse. Give us the courage to apologize boldly and the grace to extend forgiveness generously. May every year our love for you and one another grow as our hearts proclaim “you’re still the one.” Amen.

Donna Daly, guest author, has served in a wide variety of roles at Saint Luke from Sunday School to the Prayer team. She is also an active member of our senior and bell choir. Kenneth Daly, encourager and listener, too has served in a variety of ways. He participates in Donuts & Discussions regularly, and you are sure to be warmly welcomed by him on your way into Saint Luke, as he serves as a “grinner and greeter.”



Cutting Through the Clutter: Christian Minimalism

After the holiday season has passed, our focus seems to shift to managing all of our “stuff.” It fills our closets, clutters our drawers, takes over our calendars, and can downright overwhelm us. No longer does it seem as if we own our stuff, but rather it owns us. Guest speaker and pastor Becca Ehrlich recently shared about her life as a Christian minimalist, and how paring down our possessions can free us to live the abundant, full life Jesus wants for us. Here are some of the things we learned...


Minimalism is not just about having less material goods, but instead it is a larger shift in focus. Minimalism holds a focus on the aspects of life that matter most, and intentionally removes everything else that could get in the way. For each person, these valued aspects of life may be slightly different, but often areas such as health, relationships, passion, growth, or meaningful contribution rise to the top. Similarly, while the roadblocks to minimalism might vary from person to person, there seems to be a trend among the top things that get in the way of us focusing on the aspects of life that matter most. Some of the most common include material possessions and upkeep, money spending habits, time and energy spending habits, and taking on too much.

For those looking to cut through the clutter in 2019 and start the year off refocused on what really matters, try out these 3 simple steps.


Step 1: Identify what’s most important

Jesus said, “I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly” (John 10:10). Picture it. What does this abundant life look like for you? Perhaps make a list of some of the most important aspects in your life. Writing them down can be a powerful and clarifying exercise.

Step 2: Intentionally remove everything else

Minimize/declutter/get rid of stuff & commitments that keep you from an abundant life. This requires bravery and determination, but you can do it. Remember that there is no “right” way to be a minimalist. It is prescriptive rather than restrictive. It is a lifestyle that can be adjusted for your personal context and current life situation. What might be of high value in this season may not fit for the next.

Step 3: Thoughtfully consume goods, time, energy, and money

Being thoughtful about what we use, how we spend our time, where we expend our physical and emotional energy, and where we spend our money will have an impact on our hearts. In Luke 12:23, Jesus shared, “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” As we purposefully engage in the world, rather than mindfully consume, we will discover more opportunities for fellowship, stewardship, self-care, spiritual growth, vocation, and service than we ever imagined possible. 

The Results: Freedom!


Enjoy the freedom of more time, energy, and financial resources to focus on what matters most! Imagine what you might do to love and serve God and others with that extra energy, extra hour, extra financial cushion? You can make an impact in the kingdom of God.


As Christians, we are called to be counter-cultural and we can strive to be minimalists in a consumer society—because we know that our life’s meaning is not wrapped up in material things, wealth, fame, fortune, or human accomplishments/accolades.

It is through Jesus Christ, and what he did for us by dying on the cross and his resurrection, that our lives have meaning. We have one life (YOLO!). How can we focus on what matters most to love and serve God and others?

God will help us. Let’s do it together!


Grant us, O God, the desire to live simply, unhindered by the compulsion for more. Give us clarity of mind so that we might see what truly matters. Teach us to treasure what Your heart treasures, for we know that only in You will we find abundant life. Amen.

Special thanks to Becca Ehrlich for her insight into Christian Minimalism. You can learn more about this great topic and Becca on her website.

Toolbox of Faith: Two Cents Worth

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Special guest, Pastor Larry Smoose joined Saint Luke last month to discuss the important topic of finances and how we can help our children develop healthy, faith-based attitudes about money.

Quotes to Consider:

  • “Jesus talked more about money than any other topic except heaven (kingdom of God)…When people got to know Jesus and hear his teachings, their attitude about money often changed.”

  • “God understands that money is neither good nor evil, but has the potential for both.”

  • “Our culture’s mantra about money is spend, spend, spend…Newest. Biggest. Better. More! Christianity’s mantra about money is save (Joseph principle -7 good years, 7 bad years so save), share (II Cor. 9:8), & spend (You will have enough – sufficiency).

  • “Our example of generosity, sufficiency and living within our means teaches our children and youth. They learn by our example.”

Question of the Week:

Pastor Larry asked those at his forum to complete a personal money autobiography. In doing so, they reflected on what they want their children to know and think about money. They also considered how the church can help them with money issues and concerns. Here are the questions he posed:

  1. Did you parents talk about money when you were growing up?

  2. How were your attitudes and behaviors about money shaped by your mother, father or grandparents?

  3. How does your present financial status compare to that of your parents at this time in their lives?

  4. If applicable, how does your children’s financial status compare with yours when you were their age?

  5. How does your faith guide you in your use of money?

  6. What do you want your children to know/think about money?

  7. What will you do with your money as you approach the end of this life?

  8. How can the church help you with any issues or concerns you have about money?


Looking to dive deeper into the topic of finances with your kids and students this week? Check out these resources:

1. Explore the ELCA Resources “Kids, Money, & Stuff” - Looking to learn as a family or maybe with a group? Check out the ELCA resource, “Kid’s, Money, and Stuff.” Not only is there a printable participant guide, but there is also a leaders guide to help you shape the experience.

2. Get a 3 Stage Piggy Bank - Consider making or purchasing a three section bank system for your kids. As they earn or receive money, they can see the three separate areas and designate their money as share, save, or spend. A simple search online will result in many options for various age ranges.

3. Look for a course on finances for your teen - Some schools and communities offer programs specifically on managing finances for teenagers. Adolescence is a great time for young people to learn about things such as handling money, banking, credit cards, phone financial apps, etc. Can’t find one locally? Check out Thrivent for educational articles in their magazine, local workshops, and invaluable information for all life stages.

Toolbox of Faith: Its OK to not be OK

As our series “Toolbox of Faith” concludes, we reflect back on the great tools we have placed in our toolboxes and the ways they can be put to work in our daily life. In this final week, we are reminded that we are not meant to be alone in the work of building lasting faith. Together, with God and one another, we are sure to build something great!

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This week, Pastor Sue reminds us that often our most important tools are not even in our toolbox- they are the people we call when we need help. You can listen to the whole message here or an abbreviated version in this week’s Morning Drive.

Quotes to Consider:

  • “The more closely entwined with our image or sense of self, the harder it is to say we’re not ok, and ask for help”

  • The God who created us to need help from one another is with us to help us ask for it.”

  • “Humility and courage are the two necessary attributes that enable us to admit things are not ok, ask for help and receive it.”

  • “You were created to need help as well as to give it.”

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Question of the Week:

Pastor Sue asked us to consider with this week’s question. She reminds us that until we identify the barriers, we can’t develop strategies to get around them. If you need someone to process this question with, consider reaching out to a pastor, counselor, or friend. Together, we can learn to both accept and give help to one another.


Looking to dive deeper into the tool of expectations this week? Check out these resources:

1. Find a Listening Ear - You can always talk with one of our pastors. It is also possible to connect with a Stephen Minister, a trained lay person who becomes a confidential companion on your faith journey. Stephen Ministers don’t give advice, but listen, pray and with you look for signs of God’s presence. If you are interested in Stephen Ministry, talk with one of the pastors. If you do not live near Saint Luke, consider reaching out to a local church, a friend, or a counselor for support.

2. Seek Help with Sexual Assault - the National Sexual Assault Hotline 800.656.HOPE is always available to talk your call. You can also find a large variety of support online.

3. Remember the Benefits of Help - Sometimes we need a little reminder of all of the good that can come from asking for help. Check out this post to remind yourself of all the benefits.

Toolbox of Faith: Great Expectations

Let's see what God will build as we put our tools to work! As our series “Toolbox of Faith” enters week 3, we continue to fill our toolboxes with tools that help empower us to build lasting faith. Beyond the weekly message, each week here on our blog we share additional reflections and resources.

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This week, Pastor Matt explores the tool of expectation by challenging us to rethink how we measure success. You can listen to the whole message here or an abbreviated version in this week’s Morning Drive.

Quotes to Consider:

  • “We are in constant pursuit of our own high expectations or the external expectations we feel pressured to meet every day and we lose sight of God’s great expectations that lead us on a path to the greatest, most true success: success that brings you into abundant life.”

  • “That question—“who is the greatest?”—pulls at us. It changes the way we live and it changes the way we relate to our neighbor.”

  • “Jesus teaches us, just as he taught the twelve disciples, that, in God’s new reality, ‘the greatest success’ is measured differently.”

  • “Jesus invites you to pursue God’s definition of great expectations by comparing yourself to a different kind of neighbor: to the neighbor with less. And in doing so, you discover the path to deeper gratitude you walk God’s path toward compassion, toward generosity, toward God’s definition of the “greatest success.”

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Question of the Week:

Pastor Matt asked us to live with this week’s question. He encouraged us to think about it, pray about it, share about it with him online, and most importantly act on it. We look forward to hearing about what the “greatest success” looks like in your life and our community.


Looking to dive deeper into the tool of expectations this week? Check out these resources:

1. Build A Saint Luke Connection - We live out Jesus’ call to welcome children through our partnership and support of Silver Springs-Martin Luther School. Visit them online and see how you can be a part of the mission to serve and support children as they recover from crisis and experience the love that God intends for them.

2. Learn More Through Great Books - Reading is a great way to explore “greatest success” by God’s standards. Some books that are sure to get you thinking include:

Becoming the Answer to Our Prayers: Prayer for Ordinary Radicals By Shane Claiborne and Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove

"Prayer is not so much about convincing God to do what we want God to do as it is about convincing ourselves to do what God wants us to do."

Grateful: The Transformative Power of Giving Thanks By Diana Butler Bass

“Gratitude and fear cannot exist at the same time…gratitude actually processes fear: effectively driving fear out, taming it, giving us human beings the possibility of acting with courage, hope, joy, compassion.”

3. Visit Christian Simplicity: Conversations About God, Money and Trust - It is packed with knowledge, ideas, and inspiration for those looking to live a different way.

Toolbox of Faith: Business of Blessing

Grab your toolbox! In this special series, we continue to fill our toolboxes with tools that help empower us to build lasting faith. Beyond the weekly message, each week here on our blog we will be sharing additional reflections and resources.

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Continuing our series, Pastor Sue introduced us to the useful tool of blessing. You can listen to the whole message here or an abbreviated version in this week’s Morning Drive.

Quotes to Consider:

  • “Mean and unkind words give us the illusion of superiority and invincibility. None of us wants to relinquish that. But equating meanness with cleverness, rudeness with free speech, and hatred with “just speaking our mind,” will send the world up in smoke and us with it.”

  • “If Jesus can forgive me, if grace can create in me a clean heart, I trust Christ can work in me and give me clean lips to go with it..”

  • “We can choose to bless God instead. All that means is to give God a shout out. Thank and praise God for who God is and what God has done and is doing.”

  • “All of us are longing for words of acceptance, love and blessing. So let’s give them to one another. The words can be as simple as “God bless you. “God loves you.” “You are a child of God.”

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Question of the Week:

Pastor Sue challenged us to consider blessing as a tool to help us curb our tongues. We have all heard it said, “If you can’t say somethin’ nice…..don’t say nothin’ at all,” but we can do even better than that. We can choose to use our tongues to bless God and one another. Pause to consider this week’s question. Chat with a friend, spouse, or your children. If you are on social media, share your answer with our community. Together, we can put the tool of blessing to great use!


Looking to explore the tool of blessing a little more this week? Check out this resource:

Faith5 Bless - Receiving a blessing is a powerful experience, but the one receiving is not the only one affected. Those blessing also experience the transformational power of blessing. Faith5 includes the tool of blessing and is a wonderful way to incorporate faith into your daily life.

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Another exciting component of our Toolbox of Faith series are our monthly forums. In this month’s forum, Growing Together in Faith, we explored the challenge of how to raise children in faith. There are other parents right there in the trenches with you, as well as others that have walked the path of parenthood and have wisdom to share. In this forum, a panel of parents from Saint Luke shared their practical ideas on faith-filled parenting.


  1. Make Faith Fun- There are so many practical ideas to make faith a fun part of your family’s daily life. Try a few out this week.

  2. Learn from other parents- Below are two families sharing about their faith practices. Listen to what they have to say and consider asking another family about the ways they incorporate faith into their daily life.

Toolbox of Faith: Serving with a Smile

It is hard to build something without the right tools. In this special series, we will be filling our toolboxes with tools that help empower us to build lasting faith. Each week, we will be sharing helpful reflections and resources here on our blog. We are so excited to see what God might build!

Kicking off our series, Pastor Matt shared with us about the incredible tool of service. You can listen to the whole message here or an abbreviated version in this week’s Morning Drive.

Quotes to Consider:

  • “Tools, however, are only helpful if we take them out of the toolbox and put them to use.”

  • “In the midst of life with all of its ups and downs, I am here to remind you that God leads you to joy and meaning through helping others.”

  • “Ordinary people have an extraordinary impact every single day. Our actions toward one another have an impact and can shape the lives of others, often simply because we do what is in our power to help them.”

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Question of the Week:

Pastor Matt reflected on an act of service that was done for him. While it occurred many years ago, it still has had a profound impact on him. Take a few moments to reflect on this week’s question. Consider discussing it with a friend over a cup of coffee or around the dinner table with your family. If you are on social media, take a moment to share your answer with us. Let us all be inspired by one another’s stories of service!


Looking to explore the tool of service a little more this week? Check out these great resources.

1. Sign up today for Feeding Thousands- This is a great event hosted right here at Saint Luke. All ages can participate in packaging meals that help local food banks.

2. Use your voice as an advocate- Our voice is a powerful tool and one that we can use to help those in need. Many organizations have opportunities for volunteers to get involved in advocacy.

3. Learn more about Appalachia Service Project - This trip occurs annually at Saint Luke and is an incredible way to serve by helping make homes safer, warmer, and drier. Check out the website to learn more or better yet connect with someone who has participated. They have so many stories to share about their adventure with the tool of service and actual tools!

4. Get inspired- Listen to “Do Something” by Matthew West. Let his word’s inspire you as you consider who in your life you can serve.

Saint Luke Stories: The Valentine Family

As summer begins to wind down, the days seem to get a little shorter, beach chairs return back to the dusty corner of the garage, pumpkin-flavored everything appears in stores, and the sound of school buses echo throughout our neighborhoods. Yet before we say good-bye to summertime, we want to enjoy one last Saint Luke Story.

This summer, we have enjoyed a series called “Saint Luke Stories” featuring stories of how various members of our community found their way to Saint Luke and why they call it home. Thus far, we have featured stories from Marie & JenniferIanTJ, the DiSciascio family, and Claire

Today, we have the privilege of hearing from the Valentine family. Enjoy!


Finding a church that “fits” your whole family can be a challenge.  There are so many factors to consider. When the Valentine family relocated to Pennsylvania from New Jersey in the summer of 2011, they were looking for not only a church where they could build friendships and grow in their faith, but a place where they could contribute. One day while they were driving around town, they noticed a church at the corner of Conestoga Road and N Valley Forge. It was Saint Luke Lutheran Church.  Having visited multiple churches in the area and not finding the right fit, Philip, Ruth, and their son Andrew decided to give Saint Luke a try and were so glad that they did.

The Valentines recall their first visit with excitement. The church was full.  Pastor Sue delivered a meaningful sermon. They felt comfortable in the service. On top of all that, Saint Luke offered something for every member of the family, at every life stage. Ruth shares, “We noticed a lot of kids and Andrew was 7 at that time and we were immediately drawn to the many children’s programs the church had to offer.”  Yet, it was not only Andrew that found his place. Over the years, each of the Valentines have found connection, friendship, and meaningful ways to get involved.


From a small elementary child to a now polite and humorous teenager, Andrew has grown up at Saint Luke and has very much been a part of the church community. As a child the kids programs enriched his life, and now as a high school student, he continues to find a place at Saint Luke. He helps out as an Acolyte during worship and participates in 2 Copper Coins, the Spark Student Ministry band. He also serves as a role model for the next generation of young kids growing up at Saint Luke by serving as a VBS volunteer for the past 3 years.  While Ruth’s heart swells with motherly gratitude as she shares that “it is great to see Andrew involved in church activities,” Andrew playfully jokes that his mom is also happy that the electric bill is down while he is away from his video games. 


Andrew clearly had more than video games on his mind this summer, as he chose to spend a week participating in the Appalachia Service Project. During this trip, students and adults from Saint Luke traveled to Ashland, Kentucky to help make homes safer, warmer, and drier. Along the way, homes are not the only things that are transformed.  Andrew describes his moving experience of building relationships with the host families. He explains, “I enjoyed meeting my homeowner and seeing the smile on her face when her home was fixed. I also enjoyed meeting people from other churches at the Center.” For someone who is on the fence about going to ASP, Andrew would encourage them to participate, saying, “It is one of the best things of the summer. You make great relationships and you feel amazing afterwards. It is an amazing week!”  He adds that more people should get involved, and you can’t help but laugh as he hilariously adds the caveat, “Just not my parents.”


While his parents may not be invited to join in on the ASP trips just yet, they have found so many ways to be involved at Saint Luke. Ruth has made many great friends and served in the Sunday School program, Stephen Ministry, and the Connectors Team.  Phillip greatly enjoys the participating in Men’s Breakfast gatherings. He shares the story of his involvement saying, “When I visited Men’s Breakfast for the first time, the men that I met reminded me of my Dad, who I looked up to.  This got me interested in attending more regularly and getting to know more about them.” He found a wonderful community where men can learn from one another and grow together.  Today, he helps organize the group, ensuring that more men can experience the same type of welcoming and encouraging community that he found.

Week after week, the Valentines return to Saint Luke, each finding their unique place in the community.  Ruth says, “Saint Luke is the perfect fit for our family.” They feel it can be a great fit for others too, regardless of who you are. Ruth goes on to explain, “Saint Luke is a very friendly and open congregation.  They are very quick to accept diversity.”  It is also a congregation that is always ready to lend a hand without any hesitation. Philip adds that it is “the ability to be open and to welcome all” that makes them most proud to call Saint Luke their church. They hope that more people will discover this warm welcoming community and that Saint Luke will continue to grow in its diversity, as well as incorporate environmental issues, a cause close to their hearts, in its future projects.

The impact that Saint Luke has had and can have is perfectly captured in the closing story that Philip and Ruth shared.  In the beginning of the summer, Philip’s nephew and family visited from California. Their family includes two little girls, ages 7 and 3. Together, the whole family attended Sunday service and the girls went to Children’s Church during worship. They had an absolute blast, greatly enjoying their experience! Upon returning home after service, the first thing the girls said to their dad was, “Dad, you need to find a job in Pennsylvania so we can go to the same church as Uncle Philip!” To the Valentines, there is no greater compliment that could be given to Saint Luke.


Saint Luke Stories: Claire

Summertime is slipping by so quickly. As school supplies appear on shelfs, here at Saint Luke we are still savoring the season and some wonderful stories. Our series “Saint Luke Stories” continues, featuring stories of how various members of our community found their way to Saint Luke and why they call it home. Thus far, we have featured stories from Marie & JenniferIanTJ, and the DiSciascio family

This week, Claire Birkholz was kind enough to share her story of surprise with us. Enjoy!


Over twelve hours from home and with hundreds of miles between Pennsylvania and her hometown in Alabama, Claire Birkholz is setting down roots and building a life as a young professional on the mainline. In addition to starting a new job, she has had to create a whole new life here in Pennsylvania, learning her way around, building new friendships, discovering new favorite coffee shops, and searching for a new community of faith to call home. 

Back in Alabama, Claire had been raised going to a lutheran church and once she relocated she knew that she wanted to find a church in Pennsylvania. Claire explained sharing, “I was researching churches in the area because I really enjoyed attending when I was growing up. I found the Saint Luke website and I really liked it. I thought it was really engaging.” While she had anticipated having to visit multiple churches before finding the right fit, her search was surprisingly simple. She shared, “I was going to go to a couple of different churches, but I went to Saint Luke on the first try and fell in love and I haven’t gone anywhere else.”

She recalls the surprise she experienced upon her first visit with enthusiasm sharing, “I was surprised by how nice everyone was. I went to service and several people came up to me and said hello and wanted to know me, saying that they hadn’t seen me there before. It just made me feel really welcome and it was a really wonderful experience. It made me want to go again.” To top it off, that morning Pastor Sue had delivered an "amazing sermon." Claire was so captivated by Pastor Sue’s teaching that she decided then and there that she wanted to experience it more. She came back the very next week and Saint Luke has been her church ever since. 

Being new to the area, Claire was so thankful for a place that not only helped her cultivate a new sense of home in Pennsylvania but also helped her feel connected to her hometwon back in Alabama. While many miles separate her from her family and the church she grew up in, Saint Luke has been a point of connection. Claire said, “It was a really great way to feel like I was still connecting with home and also meeting a new community of people outside of work. It made the transition to this area a whole lot easier.” 


Since arriving at Saint Luke, Claire has been grateful to not only be warmly welcomed by the “incredibly friendly” congregation at Saint Luke, but also to be developing friendships in Saint Luke’s young adults ministry. She enjoys gathering with other young people that value faith and want to make a positive difference in the world.  While some may think that Millenials are less interested in church, Claire shows us that perhaps they just need to find the right faith community. She explains, “As a young adult, I definitely think that the message that Saint preaches is really relevant to the millennial generation. It's important and unique to Saint Luke. It strikes a cord.”  Each week she anticipates that she will hear Pastor Matt and Pastor Sue talking about “real life topics that are current and relevant.” She always leaves feeling both refreshed and having something to think about for the next week. 

Yet, another thing about Saint Luke that will appeal to young adults is that it is a church where faith is not just talked about, but is actually put into practice. One of the things that makes Claire most proud to be a part of Saint Luke is all of the mission work that is accomplished. She confidently shares, “It's good to know that I am attending a place and giving to a place that really contributes to the community, whether it's in the Philadelphia area with the homeless population or the greater community in Devon and on the mainline. I think we are doing some really impactful work.”  She loves hearing about not only adults serving but also the youth serving in efforts such as the Appalachia Service Project.

While only being at Saint Luke for about a year thus far, Claire already is looking towards the future. She hopes that the future will be filled with more mission work and is already considering becoming a member. She also is looking forward to experiencing some of the wonderful traditions at Saint Luke. Thus far, her favorite has been the Good Friday Service and the prayer vigil. She reflected, “I signed up for the 3am slot for the prayer vigil and it was so wonderful to just go, and be in the sanctuary and be able to pray in that peaceful environment. The whole entire Holy week was unlike anything I had experience before.” 

As you listen to Claire speak about the future, you cannot help but smile in response to the joy that just radiates off of her. She enthusiastically expresses her affection for Saint Luke declaring, “It really adds to my life in a way that no other group can. I really love it.”  It is this same experience that she hopes to share with others. When asked what she would say to someone considering visiting Saint Luke, she laughingly exclaims, “Just come. Give it a try. It really is a wonderful place and if you go and open yourself up to that, the rest will work itself out.”  

It has worked itself out for Claire. She has experienced such a friendly welcome as a newcomer to the area and is ready to warmly welcome those also looking for a place to belong. Open yourself up and you just might find yourself pleasantly surprised as Claire was. 


Saint Luke Stories: The DiSciascio Family

As we continue to savor the summertime, we continue our series “Saint Luke Stories” featuring stories of how various members of our community found their way to Saint Luke and why they call it home. Thus far, we have featured stories from Marie & Jennifer, Ian, and TJ

This story comes from Paul & Gretchen DiSciascio and their adorable kids. They are involved in Sunday School and Paul sings in the choir.  Enjoy!


Paul and Gretchen DiSciascio are raising three sweet little souls— Ewen (5), Dylan (2) and Ada (9 months). On top of teaching toddlers how to put on their own shoes, managing nap time, singing silly songs for the hundredth time, and all of the joys and challenges of raising young children, they are committed to incorporating faith into their children’s lives. After a move to a new area, the DiSciascios were looking for a local church for their whole family to call home. Paul’s previous pastor suggested that the young family check out Saint Luke. One Sunday morning, they loaded up their family and did just that. Gretchen describes their first visit saying, “We felt welcome. Ewen, our oldest, had always been reluctant to leave mom, but he went to Children's Church like it was something he did every week and he had been doing it his whole life.” It was that comfort shown by their children that caused them to return the very next week and the weeks after that. Paul explains, “Saint Luke is home. We worship here. This is where we belong.”

It is a church community where the whole family belongs and is embraced just as they are. Gretchen explained, “As an exhausted parent of three, it's comforting to know that we can come as we are and that we are not only welcome, we belong. Saint Luke is home for us. Our kids feel safe and happy here.”  The DiSciascios kiddos are a part of Sunday School and while Dylan looks forward to snack time and playing with his favorite teacher, Mrs. Seaton, Ewen also invites other kids to come “because they can learn about God and play and have fun!” Additionally, Ewen shares that his highlights of Saint Luke are “the Prayground and Children’s Church.” You cannot help but smile as Dylan chimes in agreeing about the love of the PrayGround, but also how he enjoys “sharing the peace with God.” Gretchen clarifies that he means sharing the peace with Pastor Matt, but for the life of them they can't get their adorable 2 year old to understand the difference. 


Even at the young age of 2, Dylan experiences God’s incredible love at Saint Luke and is clearly drawn to Pastor Matt. Each Christmas, Saint Luke offers a special family-friendly Christmas Eve service with a children’s message and glow sticks. It is full of Christmas cheer, and wiggles and giggles are not only welcomed, but encouraged. Last year, as the DiSciascios enjoyed the festive service, Dylan tried to get up and help his beloved Pastor Matt deliver the Children's sermon. Paul and Gretchen fondly remember this sweet and humorous holiday memory explaining, “The only way we got him to come down from the altar was by bribing him with cookies!”  


Since becoming members in January of 2017, on the same day that Dylan was baptized, they have had many wonderful memories like these. They have all found a place at Saint Luke. Beyond the involvement with their children, Paul shares the gift of his beautiful voice by participating in the choir. He shares, “I joined the choir because I enjoy singing and I like to participate in the worship service in that way.  Having grown up in a Lutheran church, I was exposed to music in a positive way at a young age, and it's always been a part of my life. The choir here at Saint Luke has been incredibly welcoming and has really helped our family feel rooted here.” The choir at Saint Luke may be small but under the leadership of John Rea has done some really big things. Paul playfully jokes, “Just think how much more he could do with just a few more...cough...join the know you want to.”  For those that love to sing, you will find what Paul discovered, a welcoming group of people, passionate about music and helping others experience God through it.


For the DiSciascios, it is their dream that their children will continue to be a part of the Saint Luke community as they grow, but they also hope that others will experience the generosity and welcoming nature of Saint Luke. To other young families uncertain if there is a place for their family at church, Gretchen soothes their fears and encourages, “Just come. However you are, whatever you've got, just come. Especially young families. Our two year old tries to run up the aisle to his dad in the choir loft almost every week, my baby decides that she is starving and needs to scream her head off in the middle of the prayers, and I never get a single dirty look. Someone always helps corral the toddler if he gets away from me, shakes his hand when we share the peace, and tells me how glad they are to see us this morning. Everyone really is welcome at Saint Luke.”  It is for that reason that Paul is most proud to be a part of Saint Luke. Paul says, “We really feel that ‘all are welcome, no exceptions’ is a thing we do here. At Saint Luke, love is a verb, and it doesn't leave anyone behind for any reason.”

Come, babies, big kids, and toddlers in tow. Ewen will gladly show you his Sunday School class and invite you to join in the fun. Dylan will happily share the peace with you. Gretchen and Ada will extend a sweet smile, and Paul is saving you a seat in the choir. There is a spot for you and everyone in your family, no matter what your family looks like. 

Saint Luke Stories: TJ

Pour yourself an ice cold glass of lemonade and settle into your favorite chair. It is time for another story. This summer, we are enjoying a series called “Saint Luke Stories” featuring stories of how various members of our community found their way to Saint Luke and why they call it home. We have heard stories from Marie & Jennifer, as well as Ian

This week's story comes from Thelma Jacks. Thelma is the chair of the HR team, and also volunteers as a greeter and counter. 


Its been said that life is not about the destination, but the journey. Perhaps it should go on to say that it is about those who travel by our side.  For Thema Jacks, affectionately known as TJ, her journey to Saint Luke is a tale of friendship.

TJ and her dear friend, Susan Saxer, have been friends for almost 40 years. Together, they have seen a lot of life. Their friendship has weathered the changing seasons and has included many adventures.  While they have various things in common, one thing has bonded them in a unique way—their faith. For years, they dreamed about attending church together, getting to worship side by side and enjoy the same faith community. However, it never seemed to work out. TJ laughs as she explains their dilemma saying, “Well, we could never figure out how a Baptist and a Presbyterian could go to church together.” Yet their friendship was deeper than denominations and about nine years ago, they began to visit churches together. Sometimes Susan would join TJ at a Baptist Church and other times TJ would join Susan at a Presbyterian or Episcopal Church.  Then, Susan stumbled across a church located near her home that she had not visited.  The church was Saint Luke Lutheran Church. She attended one Sunday and after worship she called TJ.  Recalling their conversation, TJ explained, “She called me and said, ‘Why don’t you come over and see if you like this church?’ And I did and we’ve both been here ever since.”


It was late spring when TJ visited to Saint Luke and her first experience was bursting with signs of life just like the season. She had a wonderful first impression of the church. She explained, “The first person that I met was Donna Daly, and if you know Donna, she is a very gracious and welcoming host and she formed my first impression of the church itself.” Not only did TJ find the people of Saint Luke to be warm and welcoming, but she also found the worship service to be engaging. Coming from a Baptist tradition that did not embrace women in leadership roles, TJ found Saint Luke to be very refreshing. During her teenage years TJ had digressed from those teachings regarding gender and leadership after attending a church where there were female ministers. Yet her experience at Saint Luke was the first time she had been to a church were there was a white female minister. As she saw Pastor Sue teach, she was particularly taken by not only her message but also her delivery. TJ said, “It helped seal my fate with becoming a Saint Lukan.”


After that first Sunday, Saint Luke became TJ’s church and her dear friend Susan’s church as well. Finally, their journey had brought them to the same place of worship. TJ shared, “The first time I came I made up my mind. I said, “Ok, if this is the church you want to go, it is also the church Ill go to, because I like this!” TJ began attending worship regularly and began to volunteer, helping rake the church yard periodically. As time passed, she and Susan embarked on another adventure together as they began to co-chair the social ministry team. Since then, TJ has served in various capacities and participated in many programs. She is grateful for all that Saint Luke has added to her life, particularly the ways that it continues to help her renew her faith and grow in trusting God and His plans for her life.

Yet, it has not always been an easy journey. As with all journeys, there are some bumps along the way. TJ reflected on her previous church experiences saying, “As I was trying to work my way through my Baptist tradition, I would have questions and sometimes the questions were answered in a way that made me feel guilty about not particularly measuring up.” Carrying that with her to Saint Luke, she was pleasantly surprised by what she found. She continued sharing, “What Saint Luke and Lutheranism has done is it has helped me to shed the shackles of guilt around questioning. Questioning is not doubt, but a process by which I learn more and become more steeped in my faith.” Her journey has been one of faith and questions, serving and being blessed, friendship and diversity.


As TJ describes Saint Luke, it is the church’s servant heart, welcoming attitude, and ability to create an environment in which you can be inquisitive and searching that rises to the top of her list. She is so proud to be a part of a church where all are welcome, no exceptions. She sees this radical welcome of Jesus being lived out at Saint Luke in many ways. She loves that at Saint Luke children are valued. The Children’s sermon is actually one of her favorite parts of worship each week. Her joy is evident as she explains, “Sometimes we can intellectualize and think about our faith and trust in God so much that it becomes overly complicated. When I hear the Children’s sermon, I can really relate to the simplistic way in which the parables and teachings of Christ are related to the children and how they should relate to me, even though I am a thousand years older than the kids themselves!”  

Similarly, the Rejoicing Spirits program is especially close to her heart. Rejoicing Spirits is a monthly joy-filled worship service for children and adults with developmental disabilities, their families, friends, caregivers, and the Saint Luke family.  TJ who has attended the program with her nephew finds that it includes “a fairly simplistic way of teaching about love, Christ, and servant hearts for people that may be intellectually different than I am.” Attendees not only get the opportunity to worship, but they find friendship with others. She explains, “I think that is one of the equally as important programs and activities of the church, especially since we are looking towards that notion of diversifying our community, reaching out to people who are different than we are.”

At Saint Luke, you can simply be you. Baptist, Presbyterian, Lutheran or none of the above. Any age. Any gender. Any ethnicity. Any intellectual or physical ability. Full of faith or full of questions. You will find what TJ has discovered- you are welcome here.

Saint Luke Stories: Ian

As we settle into sweet summertime, we continue our series “Saint Luke Stories” featuring stories of how various members of our community found their way to Saint Luke and why they call it home. Our first story featured Marie & Jennifer. If you have not had a chance to check it out yet, you can read it here.  

This week, our story comes from Ian Roth. Ian recently graduated from Eastern University with a Bachelors degree in Middle Level Education. At Saint Luke, he sings in the choir and helps with Spark Student Ministries.  


It was a day just like any other day at Eastern University, but for Ian Roth it was the beginning of something special. Every September at Eastern University, there is an “Area Churches Day” offered as a way for students to get to know the churches in the surrounding community. Between classes, homework, athletics, and friendships, Ian made a simple decision that would change not only his life, but would create a ripple effect influencing many others. 

As he hurried over to lunch, he choose to stop by the Area Churches Day tent and take a quick glance around. During his time there he picked up a pamphlet about Saint Luke. Due to not having a car on campus, Ian had previously been attending various churches with friends. Limited transportation meant getting to Sunday worship was a challenge for a college freshman. While he enjoyed being able to tag along to church with some of his peers, none of the churches felt quite right for him. Something was missing. Ian explained, “I enjoyed worship at these churches but they were missing the personal relationships, friendships, and family-like atmosphere I desired.” Once Ian got a car on campus, he recalled that pamphlet and decided to give Saint Luke a visit.


Visiting a new church, especially as a college student, can be intimidating. Yet, Ian took the chance and pulled up to Saint Luke one Sunday morning. Although he has been attending Saint Luke for 3 years now, he still describes his first visit with warm memories, vividly recalling details as if he had just experienced the joy yesterday. He shared, “As soon as I came in, I was taken in with open arms. People knew that I was new to Saint Luke. They genuinely wanted to get to know me and have conversation with me.”  During the service, a long time member, David York, went up to Ian and personally introduced himself. It was this type of personal touch that has left a lasting impact on Ian. By the end of the morning, Ian had been shown around the church and introduced to multiple people, including the pastors. You cannot help but chuckle as he shares, “By the end of the morning, I had even become a member of the choir!” Ian had found more than he could have imagined. He said, “I felt loved, I felt welcomed, and I felt like I had found a group of people who would support me during my academic and spiritual endeavors at college.” He found what many college student need- a loving church family. 

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Saint Luke has been that local understanding church family for Ian, always welcoming him home, encouraging him to dream big, and keeping his heart and belly full. Whether he was absent due to busyness with homework, exams, and the demands of college life, or attending every Sunday, Ian has found it refreshing to know that he will always be welcomed with open arms, regardless of how often he can attend worship. He truly believes that “Saint Luke strives to embody Christ’s love in all that they do.” He has experienced that love personally, but the ripple effect has expanded to his other community- Eastern University. One of his favorite Saint Luke memories is the “Kick Off Sunday” celebration that occured his junior year. Ian happily remembers what transpired as all of the festivities were winding down, saying, “The kitchen volunteers insisted that I take food back with me to school. I remember coming back to Eastern and feeding 15 hungry college guys hotdogs and cupcakes during the Eagles Game. They were very appreciative of Saint Luke’s generosity and it was neat to see the joyous impact Saint Like had just by this small gesture.” 

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To Ian, Saint Luke continues to stand out thanks to it’s genuine love for people, and Ian being a valued part of the Saint Luke family contributes greatly to that mission of love. It is not unlikely to see him laughing with another choir member before worship, chatting warmly with others while partaking in birthday cake in the narthex, or wacky bowling with the preteens from Club56. He, too, is a part of the ripple effect, influencing others with God’s love. Even this very week, Ian, an ambitious  graduate student studying Multicultural Education, has pushed pause on his busy life to share his energy, kindness, leadership abilities and of course Christ’s love with a group of Spark Students as they attend the ELCA Youth Gathering in Houston. (You can see all of the amazing experiences they are having over on our Facebook!). 

When asked what three words best describe Saint Luke, Ian replied, “Welcoming... Personable...Family.” And the best part is, as Ian proclaimed, that it is a family where “all are welcome, no exceptions.” We could not agree more.

Saint Luke Stories: Marie & Jennifer

Summertime is the perfect season to get swept away in a great story. We tell stories around the campfire, swap stories of our adventures, and devour stories poolside page by page. This summer, we have a new series called “Saint Luke Stories” featuring stories of how various members of our community found their way to Saint Luke and why they call it home.

Our first story comes from Marie Lambeck and her daughter, Jennifer Atkins. While they have both been involved in a wide variety of ways individually at Saint Luke, this mother daughter duo currently sings together in the choir. Enjoy!


Three generations have been impacted by Saint Luke Lutheran Church, and it all began with the Yellow Pages. Marie Lambeck, who recently celebrated a special birthday, is not slowing down anytime soon, after all she is too busy volunteering in the church office, redesigning the bulletin boards, and helping with VBS!  While now an active member of the community, her witt, vivaciousness, and humor shine brightly as she recalls the story of her initial journey to Saint Luke. Although she would claim that her story is “not very dramatic,” it is certainly interesting, spanning generations! 

Back  in the 1960’s, Marie and her late husband, Jule, relocated to the Devon area from Boston. When asked how she found her way to Saint Luke, she lets out a warm laugh, and replies saying, “Through the Yellow Pages. You can tell what an antique I am because I don’t even think there are Yellow Pages anymore!”  Marie, Jule, and their two young daughters, Christine and Jennifer, moved to Pennsylvania at the start of a week and before the first weekend had arrived, Marie knew that she needed to find a church for her family so she pulled out the Yellow Pages, flipped to “churches”, and gave Saint Luke a call. She spoke with a pastor, who gave her directions and on Sunday they attended. It was the closest Lutheran church to their home and for a young family close proximity was important. Having been raised in a Lutheran church, Marie recalls a both friendly and familiar atmosphere upon visiting. The similarities to their previous church in Boston provided them with a little extra comfort as they aimed to cultivate a new sense of home.


After their first visit, the rest is history. For the Lambecks, Sunday school, worship, and involvement in church activities was simply a way of life. Each week, Christine and Jennifer would get in their pretty church dresses and off they went to Sunday School and worship with their parents. Reflecting back on her childhood experience of Saint Luke, Jennifer shares that one word sums it up well, “family.” She has been a part of Saint Luke for most of her life and enjoyed the Sunday ritual of spending time as a family, going to church and out to lunch afterwards. Some particularly special memories arise as she reflects on the outdoor Easter sunrise services she attended as a young girl. While she admits that as a child she likely did not want to get up at the crack of dawn, as an adult she looks back fondly on those early still mornings, worshiping with her family, and then partaking in the deliciously sticky pancake breakfasts afterward. And now, years later, her own daughter, Allie, too has grown up around Saint Luke, experiencing many of the same memory making traditions. This past Easter, Allie, now a sophomore at Drexel University, was at Saint Luke with Jennifer and they came across a tapestry near the children’s classrooms. As they paused to take a closer look, they saw a tiny little handprint from Allie, a symbolic representation of the once little girl who attended that very Sunday School. Like grandmother, like mother, like daughter, they have experienced life— weddings, baptisms, funerals, laughter and tears— within those walls. 


When asked, why they keep returning to Saint Luke after all these years, Jennifer and Marie both share about the vital part of their life it has been. They have found dear friends, opportunities to make a difference in the area, a place to grow in their faith, and a welcoming community. At Saint Luke, there are those who have been life-long Lutherans like Marie and Jennifer, and yet they both share the pride they feel for the way that Saint Luke accepts everyone regardless of where they are in their faith journeys, their background, or what has occurred in their lives. Whether you have been regularly attending a church for years or it is your very first step into a community of faith, you will be embraced. Jennifer shares about this journeying aspect of our spiritual lives, explaining, “Faith pulls you back, whether you are actively involved or not going to church.”  Marie knows that some people may find themselves with various reservations about attending church, fearing rejection, judgement, and shame. She aims to set those minds at ease, as she says, “Everybody has something that they feel a little iffy about, those little niggles here and there, but if we share those niggles, I think we are a lot better off... All are welcome.”

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Looking back over the years, Marie and Jennifer have so much to smile about, and as they look forward, they are equally joyous about the future at Saint Luke. While Jennifer is aware that in this day in age people are not going to church as much, she remains hopeful that others will come to experience the “warm, welcoming community” of Saint Luke. She assures first-time guests that they will be noticed, but that people will not be pushy or bombard them. “You can get as connected as you want and it won’t take a lot of effort. People will take to you right away,” says Jennifer. Similarly, Marie offers a personal invitation to those that might be contemplating a visit to Saint Luke. Her response to someone’s potential interest:  “I am thrilled! Welcome! I’ll meet you at the front door.”  

Marie and Jennifer will be there, waiting for you, ready to transform a stranger into a fast friend with the love, gentleness, and acceptance that comes from lives transformed by Christ. 

5 Small Steps towards Sustainability


Greensgrow started almost 22 years ago as a hydroponic lettuce grower on a recovered EPA Superfund site in Kensington. They are now a leader in the urban farming sector with two locations in Philadelphia. Ryan Kuck came to Saint Luke to speak about Greensgrow's history and continuously increasing impact on the community where it started. They have a year round growing operation in addition to a thriving garden center, pop up farmers markets, community-supported agriculture programs (a "Farm Share" program), and a community kitchen. 

Ryan considers Greensgrow an "idea farm" where they also support a living wage for their 40 employees, experimenting in ways to address environmental issues like stormwater runoff, and offering corporate social responsibility opportunities. Their big take-away for consumers is that they encourage conversations and learning about their missions. They offer various workshops for anyone, plus school learning programs such as a Young Farmers program for elementary school students and a one day farming intensive class for high schoolers. They opened their second location in West Philadelphia two years ago and it is already very popular and filling a need for fresh produce and plants in this neighborhood. 

Ryan was very engaging and talked about the many ideas Greensgrow has worked to turn into reality, and was more than willing to answer questions. One particular question got all of us thinking…

What can folks in the suburbs do to advance the sustainability cause?

Here is what Ryan Kuck, Executive Director of Greensgrow has to say:

1) Start somewhere.

A lot of people are paralyzed by the scope of the problem and their seemingly personal insignificance. There's plenty of tropes about how "the longest journey begins with a single step....", but it's true that overcoming that initial lack of confidence is often the biggest challenge.  Most of what Greensgrow does is show people that there is an alternative that is possible. It doesn't matter what you do, or even if you succeed. We learn through failure, but the trying is what opens up doors and turns on the lightbulbs in the head. 

2) Follow your passions.

I detest martyrdom, and pursuing dogmatically what is the "right" approach inevitably leads to disappointment. As if we even know what is "right."  After you try a few different approaches, follow what you like rather than what feels the most important. There's nothing more demoralizing than dragging yourself out of bed each morning forcing yourself to do something you hate for a cause that never ends. If you like to bike, then bike to work or to the grocery store when you can. If you don't, don't feel guilty about driving but find something else you can build a routine around. If you hate worms, don't start composting. The urban farming world needs more accountants and engineers. Some people are born to plant trees, others are born to make sure there's money in the bank to get the trees to where they need to go. Focusing on what you CAN do, and can sustain, rather than what you SHOULD do builds a stronger and more resilient movement. 

3) Understand the difference between being an ally and being an accomplice.

This terminology is used more and more in the fight for racial justice, but the same principles apply to our responsibility as stewards of the earth. An ally stands up for what is right, an accomplice tears down what is wrong. All 7 billion of us can't live like the average North American. What are you willing to give up to change that paradigm? Maybe you stop buying strawberries in December, maybe you hire a  landscaper who plants native perennials, maybe you drive 65 instead of 75 to save a few MPGs and enjoy the scenery a bit more in the process. You can feel responsibility without feeling guilt. You can attend to that first and most impactful "R" in the sustainability trilogy - Reduce - without becoming a resentful curmudgeon.


4) Forget charity, INVEST in a better future.

Donate. Re-direct your dollars from propping up the stocks of oil companies to sustaining the people making meaningful change happen. More importantly, sustain that investment. Sign up for a recurring donation so I don't have to bug you each December for a check. Don't spread your money out but rather focus it where a larger amount can make a difference. Get involved. Mobilize your time, talent, AND your treasure by joining a board or organizing a fundraising happy hour at your home.


5. Most importantly, never stop asking questions.

Hang around some five year olds and learn to keep asking "Why?". Why does it have to be done this way? You don't have to have the answers, but asking the question opens up the chance that you'll meet someone who does.


Creator God, this earth, our home, is yours and everything in it is yours. We see your fingerprints all around and are filled with praise. May we care for your creation, preserving it and cherishing it, for in doing so we actively agree with you- that it is indeed “good.” Amen.


Special thanks to guest blogger, Ellen Flatt for her reflection on Ryan's recent visit to Saint Luke. Ellen is a part of Saint Luke's adult education team. Gratitude also goes out to Ryan Kuck of Greensgrow for his ideas on how we can care for God's creation. 

No Winter Lasts Forever


For the courage of the daffodils, thanks be to God. And for the brave pioneers, crocus and tulips, thanks be to God. For the sunshine and the warmth, defrosting the earth & awakening the robins to sing, thanks be to God. For the seeds of hope planted around us and in our hearts, filled with the promise of new life, all thanks be to God!


It seems as if spring may officially be here. The snow has melted and the vibrant colors of a new season are popping up all around us. Each one serves as a reminder of the hope for new life with Christ. We see this new life in nature each spring, but we also see it sprouting up around us and in our own hearts. 

Today, Council members, Bill Baver and Fred Schulz share about where they see God on the move this springtime.  


I see God in Confirmation class each week.  The Confirmation students are eager to question and push the boundaries of "who is God" and "can God really do that"?  We spend time just talking about ways to turn every day activities, and every day interactions, into something that God enabled and in what God allows us to see and experience.  It is truly uplifting and every time we meet I am amazed at the true faith our youth have and how they are shaping their faith experience right before our eyes.  It is a very humbling experience to watch the growth of body and mind!

-Bill Baver, Council President


God works in numerous and wonderful ways at Saint Luke every day, but recently I was reminded of one very special way.  A few weeks ago was Confirmation Sunday, with the youth leading the service and the confirmation class reading their Faith Statements to the congregation.  The maturity of those ninth graders sharing their expressions of faith before the congregation was tremendous to witness.  Behind them, of course, were wonderful parents raising them in the Christian faith, a wonderful set of teachers in Sunday School and Confirmation class, and our fantastic and caring pastors, all nurturing their minds and helping guide them on their individual journeys.  In these increasingly trying times, the future looked bright listening to these youth and their inspiring stories.

-Fred Schulz, Councilor for Learning & Faith Formation


There is so much growth & new life occurring in the young people at Saint Luke. However, the hope of something new is for those of all ages, for all of us. In the parts of our lives that seem stuck in a perpetual bleak winter, God can birth something new and vibrant and incredible. No winter lasts forever. Spring is coming. 

Something to ponder this week...

  • Where do you catch a glimpse of God this springtime? Praise Him for it. 
  • Where in your life are you looking for God to bring new life? Ask Him for it. 


May this springtime fill our hearts with gratitude and anticipation for new life. Tend our hearts, O Lord, so that something beautiful may blossom within us.

Talking to Children about Violence: Tips for Caring Adults


Stories of violent acts in school are on the minds of many. Photos and videos of recent events replay through our minds trying to make sense of the tragedy. We hear stories of great courage, loss, bravery, fear, guilt, and grief. These stories can confuse and frighten children. In the face of tragedy, parents and caring adults play such an important role in educating their children with accurate information and sharing guidance on how to react. When children are struck with fear and anxiety, caring adults get to hold space for them, validating both the child's feelings and their own.  Caring adults demonstrate a healthy way to express feelings and model coping skills. They also get to be the comforting voice reassuring children with a message they desperately need to hear:

You are safe

Caring adults can help children by making time to talk, keeping explanations developmentally appropriate, limiting "electronic" exposure to these events, and reviewing safety procedures. As a caring adult helps walk with young people through these tragedies, it is also important to keep an eye on the children's emotional states. Watch for extreme reactions, sudden drastic changes, preoccupations, as well as changes in eating, sleeping, hygiene, social interactions, and anxiety level. Remember, it is okay to seek additional help if you are concerned by a child's behavior. 

As you talk to children about violence, here are some potential points to emphasize: 

  • Schools are safe places

  • Everyone plays a role in school safety

  • Tell an adult if there is something they’re worried about or something they’ve seen or heard

  • Acknowledge that sometimes people do things to hurt others and it’s hard to understand why

  • Mental illness does not mean someone will definitely be violent

  • Violence is never the answer, there are many ways to express your emotions that are productive


Caring adults are valuable resources to children trying to make sense of the violence in the world. However, you are most helpful to others when you are healthy and taking care of yourself. Know your limitations. Understand your own triggers for stress. Seek help when you need it. 

Check out these additional resources for more information on this important topic: 

NASP- Talking to Children about Violence

Tips for Parents & Educators


God, comfort the hearts of those that are fearful, anxious, and grieving as a result of the violence in our schools. May our children feel loved, understood, supported, and safe. Bring peace to our broken world. 

Special thanks to guest blogger, Amy Smith. Vicar Amy is finishing her first year at the United Lutheran Seminary where she is working toward a Master of Divinity degree. She is also a certified school psychologist and currently works as an Educational Consultant at the PA Training and Technical Assistance Network.


God's Love is Like...


For the first time since 1945, Valentine's Day and Ash Wednesday share the same date. Valentines Day, a holiday designed to celebrate romance, and Ash Wednesday, the beginning of lent, may seem to have little in common. One seems so light hearted and romantic; While the other feels more weighty and somber. However, this convergence is the perfect time to lean in and take a closer look at what they hold in common: love. 

Whether you reflect today on love due to the hearts, roses and chocolates of Valentine's Day or the ashes spread across your forehead in worship, your status as "beloved" remains true and unchangeable thanks to the LOVE that surpasses all loves-- God's love. 

YOU are loved, plain & simple, but LOVE is a difficult concept to wrap our heads around. When asked what God's love is like often we find ourselves struggling to put something so complex into words, often resorting to illustrations. But as they say, a picture is worth a thousand words, right?



God’s love is like the first fire in your fireplace of the year. Warming, beautiful, cheery, invites contemplation and is best enjoyed with others. And it always carries a hint of quickly it can spread and even consume......which is part of the draw, right?  

-Pastor Sue Ericsson


God’s love is like ‘the air we breathe’ – to reference an old praise song.  It’s essential for life but the very life it provides often keeps us so occupied (or distracted) that it goes unnoticed, unacknowledged and unappreciated.  No matter, though, God’s love continues to speak, listen, embrace, reprove and replenish the world which that love created, redeemed and continues to inhabit.  God's love gives all and requires no bargaining.  God's love hopes, helps and heals.  All we need to say is 'thanks' and ask how can I get in on the action!   

-Pastor Mary Konopka


God’s love is like a swimming pool on a hot summer day. It’s in front of me (and you) inviting us to find refreshment. Sometimes we stare at it from a distance. Sometimes we sit on the edge and simply stick in a toe or sit and dangle our feet into the water. Sometimes we wade in tentatively. Sometimes we realize that what is in front of is exactly what we need; We run, leap and plunge in with joyful abandon. In those moments of being refreshed, our response has the wonderful ability to make others want to jump in, too!  

-Pastor Matt Staniz


God, we thank you for your consuming love and the way it warms our hearts and refreshes our souls. We praise you for continuing to lavish that love on us even when it goes unnoticed, unacknowledged and unappreciated. Help us today to recognize your love on the move in the world around us, to plunge in with joyful abandon, and to invite others to do the same. 

What do you picture when you think of God's love? Share with us how you would finish the phrase "God's love is like..."  in the comments below. 

What is Addiction?


I was surprised, a decade ago, when for the first time a student sat down in my office and told me that he was a sex addict. Of course I already knew that you can’t tell by looking at a person what may be going on in his or her life. But while I had heard of sex addiction, I was skeptical as to whether any such thing really existed. Isn’t addiction about substances, like drugs and alcohol? How could an activity be addictive, particularly such a ubiquitous, ordinary, everyday activity as sex?

Ten years later, I’ve learned a lot. In particular, I’ve learned that addictiveness is not a kind of magnetic quality that resides in things like alcohol or drugs or sugar and that reels people in who come too close to them, like a tractor beam. Addiction is a psychological mechanism that resides in people, that begins not as a problem but as a solution, as a way of managing otherwise intolerable feeling states.


An addictive target can be anything that is used in this way. Chemicals like alcohol and other drugs, which affect how people feel by exerting physiological effects on the brain, make particularly effective addictive targets. But activities that evoke chemical changes in the brain do just as well. People manage their otherwise intolerable feelings—of shame, dependence, helplessness, rage—with work, with shopping, gambling, eating, exercising, and, yes, with pornography and other forms of sexual activity.

The problem comes when what started as a solution becomes itself a problem.

The problem, of course, comes when what started as a solution becomes itself a problem—not just a habit or an intentional means of stress reduction, but a compulsive behavior that the person cannot stop, even in the face of terrible negative consequences: trouble with the law, disruption of relationships, damage to physical health, interference with responsibilities at work and at home. This is what we call addiction.

I’ve been teaching a class on addiction at Eastern University for a couple of years now, and we talk in class about a range of subjects related to addiction—some that are more applicable to substance-focused addictions (like the pharmacology of substances of abuse and the so-called war on drugs) and some that are applicable to process addictions as well: risk factors like childhood trauma, interpersonal neurobiology, harm reduction and access to treatment, and treatment strategies themselves, like 12-step programs, psychological therapies, and community and family support and education.


In this class we ask a broad range of questions: Is addiction a brain disease or a sin, a problem of will or a problem of knowledge? Does addiction have primarily to do with individuals, or is it constituted and maintained in intimate relationships or on a societal level? Who is susceptible to addiction, and why? If a person stops engaging in addictive behavior, is he or she still an addict?

We explore Christian theological voices and biblical and historical resources for understanding how Christians have understood addiction in the past and more recently. We also read current books treating aspects of addiction that are often neglected in Christian theological treatment of addiction. In addition, we read personal accounts of addiction and recovery, and consider how a Christian response to addiction might incarnate the prophetic values of justice, mercy and humility. You can find a partial reading list here to assist those interested in learning more about this ubiquitous and persistent challenge to human flourishing. 

So, how should a Christian respond to addiction? Whether you or a loved one are facing addiction, or perhaps you just feel a need to learn more or become more actively involved, here are a few steps you can consider taking this week:

  • Check out one of the books listed above. There is so much to be learned about the topic of addiction and often learning leads to understanding and understanding leads to a more empathetic & helpful approach towards those facing addiction.
  • Explore your local resources. Often there are organizations right in your community offering treatment for those facing addiction, as well as support for those with addicted loved ones. This is not a battle to fight alone. If you live locally, check out the upcoming classes offered at Saint Luke for adults and teens
  • Prayer. Addiction is not just a bad habit to break. As people of faith, we recognize that not only can others support those facing addiction, but we can also call on God for strength and support. 


God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference.

-The Serenity Prayer


Special thanks to guest blogger, Margaret Kim Peterson, Ph.D., Professor of Theology and Psychology at Eastern University and member of Saint Luke. 


Living Generously


Around the holidays, we are often reminded of the value of living with gratefulness and thanksgiving in our hearts. However, in the busyness of the season, it is so easy to get sidetracked from this mission. Even more so, we lose sight of the fact that our thankfulness for all of the blessings we have received in our lives should compel us to live with open hearts and hands. After all, gratitude and love are the birthplace for generosity.  

“You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving.” - Amy Carmichael

Guest writer, Dave Webb, shares with us 3 ways to continue to cultivate generosity, not just as a seasonal attribute, but as a lifestyle. 



When I was asked to write this blog, my response was “sure I’ll do it, but if you don’t hear anything from me by next week, shoot me an email to remind me.”  I then put this task on my intermediate “to do” list.  Sure enough, next week came, followed by the reminder email since clearly I didn’t have time to get to it!   Like many, I struggle with multitasking and keeping up with my many responsibilities.  I regularly lament how technology demands quick responses these days.  It all can be overwhelming, and sometimes I want to stop and recoil.  It’s hard, but you have to somehow plan out your time well and try not to get too frustrated if a short term emergency derails your best intentions.  We were not put on this earth to be selfish with our time; we all should seek out others and connect with friends and strangers alike. We should try our best to honor our commitments to others.  More times than not, you will be rewarded.  Probably the best memories I have had in the last 20 years came from the extra time I dedicated to volunteering as a Coach or Scout Leader and through this work at Saint Luke, interacted with others in our community. Your time is a precious gift. Live generously.




Don’t think you have to be the best or most proficient at any skill to share it.  Your talent can be as simple helping out a neighbor who could use a hand.  Admittedly, I watch a lot of HGTV, yet I acknowledge that my carpentry skills are quite modest.  Yet, for the third time in my life, I will be taking a week this summer to volunteer for the Appalachia Service Project (“ASP”), an outstanding non-profit organization which empowers youth and adults to make homes safer, warmer and drier for disadvantaged people in Appalachia.  I can’t tell you how satisfying my previous experiences at ASP have been to my soul when I turn off my phone (fortunately cell service is very spotty in those communities), extract myself away from my stressful job and my highly privileged community, and work alongside friends from my church community to help those in substantial need.  The genuine human appreciation received from a homeowner who received new drywall or insulation that they could not afford is both humbling and gratifying.   Step outside your comfort zone and try new experiences in service to others.   Trust me, you will be rewarded a hundred-fold. Your talents have value. Live generously.




We live in community of nice things.  Many of us don’t think twice about the cost of a monthly gym membership, the periodic dues for a Youth Sports Team and Swim/Golf Club or the monthly payment of buying or leasing a new car.  Many of these types of activities give us personal pleasure.  However, shouldn’t we all consider budgeting a thoughtful amount of our financial resources outside our personal needs toward organizations that promote services for those in need?  Yes, I’m talking about your local Church.  They do their work every day. Their doors are always open and they don’t charge a fee to join.  They rely on free-will donations from those who recognize the importance of their work in our community, our nation and our world.  While I sometimes hate being beholden to technology in my everyday life, I so appreciate making automatic electronic contribution every month to my Church.  Much like paying our monthly electric bill which is a necessary expense to keep our home operating, our monthly gift to our Church is our family’s “Good Will to Others” expense that is necessary to help others throughout our world.  I take great comfort knowing that I am regularly helping the Church do its important work every day, even if I’m not able to attend Worship every week.  I also like the fact that beyond my monthly gifts, I can make extra gifts for special events or missions as they arise and can even consider gifting appreciated investments during a strong stock market (thus avoiding capital gains taxation along with the charitable gift deductions; a complete win/win situation!). Your treasure, big or small, matters. Live generously. 


Lord, help us to live generously both this holiday season, and always. May we reflect your giving heart to those around us. May we contribute to your work in the world. May we experience your blessing and pleasure as we live with open, grateful, and generous hearts.


Dave Webb is a longtime member of Saint Luke and is currently serving on Church Council as treasurer. 

The Whys of Worship: Sending

In observation of the 500th anniversary of the Reformation, we continue in our series of posts titled "The Whys of Worship," exploring the Worship form used for generations: Gathering, Word, Meal, and Sending. In our series, thus far, we have focused on Gathering, the Word, and the Meal.

In our final post, guest blogger, Bob Mitchell talks about the importance of Sending in the Lutheran liturgy and what it means to us as Christians. 


At this time of year, many of us of a certain age, have sent our sons or daughters off to college. There they will grow, learn, and have fun.

In Christian faith, we too grow, learn, and have fun at worship. And as a sign of God’s grace for us, we are sent to take that message into the world to share our joy and excitement with others.

So, why is sending such a small, yet important part of the Lutheran liturgy and our lives as Christians?

The Evangelical Lutheran Church in America’s (ELCA) Worship Formation & Liturgical Resource guide notes that through worship we hear of God’s Word; we are saved through God’s grace in the waters of Baptism; we join together in a meal of bread and wine at communion; and we join with God in prayer.


While worship services may vary from one ELCA congregation to another, the Evangelical Lutheran Worship, (ELW) notes that Lutheran’s common Pattern for Worship (ELW p. 91) “in the principal service of Christian worship, the Holy Spirit gathers people around the means of grace — the saving Word of God and the sacraments (Baptism and Holy Communion). From the table of communion where Jesus Christ comes with forgiveness, life, and salvation, God sends us to share the good news and care for those in need.”

This is the basic structure of Lutheran worship — gathering, word, meal, and sending — and joins the whole people of God by the same gifts of grace as we are sent to take God’s Gospel into the world. It’s what we do when we leave worship, the sending, and how we interact with God’s people in the world.

This is central to everything we as Lutherans do, worship unites us in celebration (the fun), engages us in thoughtful dialogue and helps us to grow in faith. Worship grounds us in our Christian and Lutheran roots. Through worship, we are nurtured in faith and then are sent out into the world to spread the Good News of God’s grace.

For me, this was always a difficult thing to imagine. How can I go into the world and tell of God’s grace? It’s not that difficult: we all do this each and every day, as we meet others, respect one another, and in how we share God’s love for us with those we meet.

Sending at the end of worship is reminds us that we are to share God’s message of Love with the whole world. The Sending is the briefest part of worship, coming in the final words of worship. Lutheran worship ends with this declaration: "Go in peace. Serve the Lord.”

For those who worship regularly at Saint Luke, you know that we have a slightly different version of the sending, based on our Mission Statement. The final words said by the Assisting Minister at the conclusion of worship are: “Go in Peace to Know, Love, and Serve Christ.” The congregation responds: “Thanks be to God.”


That is our Mission.

That is our sending as members of Saint Luke Evangelical Lutheran Church. 

This is a bold statement coming at the end, yet it is just the beginning to go into the world — God’s Creation — to Know, Love, and Serve others, as Christ so loves us.

So, as we go into the world, how is God calling you to serve? Is there a neighbor you have yet to greet? Is there a role you can serve in the community? Is there someone in need? God needs our hearts, our hands, and our hope for a better world where all will give and receive God’s grace.


So, now “Go in Peace, to Know, Love, and Serve Christ!

Thanks be to God!”


Special thanks to Bob Mitchell for his contribution to this blog post. Bob is a long-time member of Saint Luke. He serves his mission by volunteering to read with children and tutoring adult learners. He serves at Saint Luke as an assisting minister, communion assistant, lector, usher, Stephen Minister, and as editor of the LOOK, the church’s online newsletter.